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Match Game – Adopting the Right Dog Part 2 — Adjustments and Accommodations

Sometimes, there is that moment when your eyes lock onto an adoptable dog’s eyes and there is an instant bond just like in the movies but that is a rare occurrence.  For a majority of the animals in a shelter you are going to see a sometimes shut down, scared or anxious dog.  It’s loud, often smelly and, did I mention, loud in shelters.Woman Rubbing Noses with Puppy

Then there is the cuteness syndrome…there are reasons we ooh and ahh when we see a cute animal or human baby.  When we see those cute little faces, our brains are washed in a wave of dopamine which is the same chemical reaction we have when we fall in love, have sex or use drugs.  So, the cuter the dog, the more our brain tells us we need that animal. Big eyes, round, bulbous foreheads, wrinkles of skin…all these trigger this thing in our brains that makes us feel good and want to protect these “babies.” Some of the cutest dogs I’ve known have been extremely fear aggressive and are not a good match for anyone but the most experienced dog handlers and guardians.

So, as hard as it might be, we need to fight off the dopamine and cuteness factor when choosing the right right dog for the family.  When you find the right dog for you, I guarantee he will be the cutest looking after a while.  All human babies, to me, look like Winston Churchill with their big bald heads and rolls of fat but human instinct of the moms always say their baby is the cutest.

One of my friends, Laurie, went out to shelters one weekend looking for a Yorkie or Silkie Terrier or something that was scruffy and fluffy.  She came home with a large, red, short-haired dog that looked like a Vizsla or Rhodesian Ridgeback mix. and has since adopted three more largish, red dogs!  The point is that looks are really only a small part of that bond you will establish with the dog in your family.

This is the advice I give people who are visiting a shelter to choose their next family members:

  1. Look at less subjective things about your new family member rather then how cute he is.
    1. Energy level – I always use the example of a border collie who is adopted by a family of couch potatoes.  Neither dog nor humans will be happy in the situation.  The dog wants to work and herd whatever it can.  The people want to lie on the couch and watch sports or movies…not participate in them!
    2. Sociability – if you are looking for a furry companion that loves all people and dogs and can join your family on outings and vacations then you probably don’t want the dog cowering at the back of the kennel who is terrified of all around. But, please, keep in mind, that shelters often are scary and a dog is not himself there.
    3. History with Children – if you have kids or grandkids then you want a dog who can be around them and interact with children.  Some dogs are so frightened by children that they shut down so you want to make sure your new dog is comfortable and unphased by the lively antics of a kid!
  2. Ask if the rescue or shelter has a “Foster to Adopt” program.  This allows you to see how the dog lives in your environment and allows the dog to show you their true selves.  But there is generally about a two-week “honeymoon” period when bringing home a new dog.  This first two weeks is where everyone is on their best behavior and not quite accustomed to their new situation.  Humans aren’t habituated to their new family member and the dog is getting adjusted to this new life.  As an adoption counselor I want to make sure my adoptions stick so if there are any variables in the situation like other pets, disabled individuals in the home, etc. then I suggest we try a Foster to Adopt first.  One couple came to adoptions and fell in love with a lovely pitbull mix we had available for adoption.  They let me know that the husband had done several stints in Iraq with the Army and is now suffering from PTSD.  We knew that the bond was already starting to form with him and this young girl pup but we all wanted to make sure that the daily stress of keeping a dog wasn’t going to make the husband’s PTSD worse.  I’m happy to say it was a match made in heaven and they are all living happily ever after.
  3. If you can take a few days off when you get your new dog everyone will be happier! There are a few days needed for adjustment period for both you and your new dog. You can ease that adjustment by taking a few days off to acclimate your new best friend to your house and your rules.  We see a lot of new puppies in the spring/summer time and that’s a great time for adoptions during vacations!

Bringing a new family member into your home is not something that should be a spur of the moment event.  You want the best family member you can get and your dog wants the best family he can get!  Do your homework and you’ll soon have a great new member of your family.

Need advice on training, dog selection, behavior or dog sports?  Hit me up and maybe your question will be my next blog!  –the Kritter Keeper


How Do You Choose Your Next Family Member?

Did you know that we are genetically wired to think babies are cute? We go ga-ga for the giant eyes of a baby of any species — human, dog or cat! But the best matches when choosing your next family member occur when you’ve done your homework to see what are the best breeds, temperaments, activity levels and grooming commitments are to match your family’s lifestyle. Of course, breeds are just another guide we have and not all members of a breed will perfectly match the description.Image

When you think about bringing a new furbaby into your family, this is a long-term commitment! If you have a brand new puppy like Gizmo, you are looking at the next 10 – 15 years! So you want to look at the breed’s general attributes to see if they are a match for your family. For example, Gizmo is a rescue from a local shelter and we really don’t have any information on his make up but by looking at his features, we are pretty confident he is a boxer mix. I know he’s going to be a pretty active guy and will want to engage in some brain stimulating activities so I’m going to look for some interactive toys for him. I’m also going to engage him right away in some basic obedience training.

Some general things to keep in mind when choosing a dog are the following:

  • What size dog do you want, and is this size compatible with your living quarters?
  • How much time can you spend exercising/training/playing with a dog?
  • What types of activities will you enjoy with your dog? Is your lifestyle active or sedentary?
  • How much can you afford to budget for a good brand of dog food?
  • Do you have a yard or access to a nearby park where your dog can play?
  • How much time and effort can you devote to grooming your dog?

There are many applications available to help you decide what breeds you may be interested in a pet. My favorite resource for information on breeds is Animal Planet. They have an application for choosing the right cat breed or dog breed. Not only do they have some great information on line but also some great shows to give you info on breeds (Dogs 101, Cats 101) and Training (It’s Me or the Dog, My Cat from Hell).

One of the most important ones is your lifestyle. If you have a really high energy dog and a low energy lifestyle, that is not going to be a match made in heaven! I have a friend with a great boxer, Dax. That boy has energy galore! Not only is he in doggy daycare on a daily basis but she also gives him very long walks. On the weekend, I’m always seeing pictures of these five plus mile hikes they go on together. But if Kristen didn’t do everything in her power to exercise her boy, they would not have such a wonderful relationship!

Based on Gizmo’s looks, I bet he’s going to be a really high energy fellow! That should work out well in my home as I have a couple of high energy dogs, and a couple of low energy dogs. We will do what we can to make sure he’s tuckered out before he can cause puppy mischief! I will work with him on general manners and make him ready for his furever home. Lots of walks and exercise in his future!

If you are getting ready to add a new member to your family, I urge you to take all the factors into consideration. Our shelters are filled with adolescent puppies and young adult dogs that are a result of poor planning and owners not understanding what they were signing up for. Don’t just go for the cute factor. Getting a puppy or kitten means that in a few months you have a young dog or cat! Do your research and look for the best fit for your family!